Great job, Janet! I also am married to an African-American man and have 5 grown children, 13 grandchildren, and 1 great-grand. I've written several posts about our experiences living in a racist town, Tulsa, OK. However, much of the racism is covert and institutionalized. Here is an ex. of my kids experience with identity: https://medium.com/ninja-writers/the-coloring-of-america-78e8b6996093?source=friends_link&sk=5a6c292341b4d6aa360433eef11bbdf9

I look forward to more submits. Thanks, sis!